Who can find a virtuous wife? For Her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; she will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil. All the days of her life. ….She preceives that her merchandise is good, and her lamp does not go out by night. She is not afraid of snow for her household, Strength and honor are her clothing,…. And does not eat of the bread of idleness. Her husband is known at the gates, when he sits among the elders.. This is just a little of the scripture that discribes a virtuous wife and mother… if you have questions or someone telling you that you need to be this or that and you want to know what God wants you to be… please finish reading and study the words of… Proverbs 31: 10-31. I pray that it give you peace and strength to face the goliath that is in front of you.